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View Upcoming Long Island Events
Our Long Island speed dating events take place across Nassau and Suffolk at friendly, easy-to-park venues. Whether you live in Queens border towns, the South Shore, or all the way out near Ronkonkoma, these LI singles events help you meet local people without the NYC commute.
For our full Long Island speed dating hub with current schedule, age-specific nights, and venue details, click here.
Events typically take place in popular spots across the Island including Woodbury, Massapequa, Carle Place, Garden City, and Huntington. Most venues offer free parking, relaxed seating, and an easy environment to meet new singles.
At a Glance
- Where: Nassau and Suffolk venues
- Format: 8-15 mini dates
- Parking: Free or easy access
- Hosts: Friendly guidance all night
- Matches: Sent in 12-24 hours
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Quick Answers
- Dress code: Smart casual works well
- Age groups: 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s depending on event
- Food/drinks: Available for purchase
- Arrival: Check in 10-15 minutes early
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Voice Quick Answers
Where are Long Island speed dating events held?
Most events are in Nassau and Suffolk in towns like Woodbury, Garden City, Carle Place, Huntington, and Massapequa.
Is parking easy?
Yes, most LI venues offer free parking or large lots.
How long do events last?
Plan for 90 minutes to 2 hours depending on the size of the group.
How many people will I meet?
Typically between 8 and 15, depending on turnout.
Do you verify age?
Yes, IDs are checked at check in to keep groups accurate.
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Nassau
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Singles w/ Aging Parents- Seminar
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Wed
Oct
14
2026
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Singles w/ Aging Parents- Seminar
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 52-66 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Queens
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Queens Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
16
2026
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Queens Speed Dating
Men 56-70,
Women 52-66
Queens
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
17
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
24
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
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Sun
Oct
25
2026
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Observe
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Sun
Oct
25
2026
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Pickleball Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-55 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
30
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 43-55,
Women 40-54
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
31
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Queens
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Queens Speed Dating
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Fri
Nov
6
2026
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Queens Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Queens
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island Comedy
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Sat
Nov
7
2026
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Long Island Comedy
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Nov
14
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Fri
Nov
20
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | 52-66 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Suffolk
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Nov
21
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 56-70,
Women 52-66
Suffolk
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Nov
21
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
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Sun
Nov
22
2026
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Observe
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Sun
Nov
22
2026
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Pickleball Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Nov
28
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-55 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Nov
28
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 43-55,
Women 40-54
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Other
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4 Night Caribbean Getaway
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Mon
Dec
14
2026
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4 Night Caribbean Getaway
Men - All,
Women - All
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Oct
13
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Oct
20
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Nov
3
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Nov
10
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Nov
17
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 35-54 |
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| Men: | 38-55 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Nov
24
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 38-55,
Women 35-54
Online
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| Women: | 40+ |
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| Men: | 40+ |
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Manhattan
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Cocktails and Connections
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Sat
Oct
17
2026
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Cocktails and Connections
Men 40+,
Women 40+
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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NYC
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
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Tue
Oct
20
2026
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
Men - All,
Women - All
NYC
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Manhattan
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Matchmaking Database
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Tue
Oct
20
2026
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Matchmaking Database
Men - All,
Women - All
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
23
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-65 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Nov
13
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Nov
14
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Nov
14
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-36 |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Manhattan
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Bachelor Alert-NYC
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Sun
Nov
15
2026
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Bachelor Alert-NYC
Men N/A,
Women 25-36
Manhattan
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| Women: | N/A |
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| Men: | N/A |
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NYC
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Jewish Bachelorette Alert
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Sun
Nov
15
2026
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Jewish Bachelorette Alert
Men N/A,
Women N/A
NYC
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-64 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Nov
19
2026
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JEWISH NYC Speed dating
Men 48-64,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Nov
20
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Singles w/ Aging Parents- Seminar
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Wed
Oct
14
2026
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Singles w/ Aging Parents- Seminar
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-66 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Wed
Oct
14
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-70,
Women 50-66
Other
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| Women: | 40+ |
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| Men: | 40+ |
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Manhattan
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Cocktails and Connections
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Sat
Oct
17
2026
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Cocktails and Connections
Men 40+,
Women 40+
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Other
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Oct
24
2026
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Other
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Nov
12
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Nov
14
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | N/A |
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| Men: | N/A |
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NYC
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Jewish Bachelorette Alert
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Sun
Nov
15
2026
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Jewish Bachelorette Alert
Men N/A,
Women N/A
NYC
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| Women: | 50-65 |
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| Men: | 56-69 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Nov
19
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Nov
21
2026
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut
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People Also Ask About Long Island Speed Dating
How much do Long Island speed dating events cost?
Prices depend on the venue and age group. Check the schedule above for exact pricing.
Which Long Island towns host events?
Regular locations include Woodbury, Garden City, Huntington, Carle Place, and Massapequa.
What do I wear to LI speed dating?
Smart casual is perfect. Look neat but comfortable.
Can I come alone?
Yes, most LI attendees come solo and the host helps everyone feel welcome.
How soon do matches get emailed?
Within 12-24 hours, including one-way matches.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do these events really work on Long Island?
Yes. Many couples have met at LI events and gone on to long-term relationships.
Are Nassau and Suffolk separate events?
Some events are Nassau-only or Suffolk-only; others rotate between both counties.
Is food or drink required?
Some venues have a one or two item minimum. Check event details above.
Do I need to be in the age group that matches my age?
To be fair to those who register, you must be within 2 years of the specified age group listed.
From Jay
Long Island is my home base and honestly one of my favorite places to run events. The venues here are laid back, the parking is easy, and the crowds are always friendly. Over the years I have met so many great people from Nassau and Suffolk who just want something real and local.
If you are on the fence about coming out, give it a shot. LI events have produced tons of long-term relationships and more than a few marriages. When you show up with an open mind, good things happen.
If you ever need help choosing the right event, reach out anytime.
See you soon,
Jay
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