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for first time customers
 Selected events and genders
 
 If you search the internet for speed dating companies, you
will find yourself with many choices. Some are national
companies that have events across the country and others such
as WeekendDating.com service a few markets.   How do
you know what company to go with?    The
guidelines below should help  you.
 We are frequently told by participants who have tried
other speed dating companies, that our events are the
most enjoyable because we are the most organized and
pay attention to the little details that matter. 
Anyone can host a speed dating event, however hosting
it the right way is a different story.    
 
If you are
a first time customer and have tried a competitors
event within the last year, register for our event and
provide the competitors receipt upon check in. 
You will receive $10 cash on the spot.  The
receipt must have YOUR name associated with it (credit
card statement is ok).
 
 This $10
rebate is only valid for selected events/genders that are
identified on the
upcoming events
page.
 Guidelines to selecting a speed dating
company
 
    We welcome your ideas and
ways to improve our events so feel free to contact us at
718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.
    *Does the company have
    an updated website with a phone number to call should you have any
    questions?  
    Does the company
    require pre-payment for the events? 
    This is KEY.  Ensuring an equal gender balance is no
    easy task.  Although it is nice to just be able to show up
    and pay at the door, this system just does not work and
    consistently leads to a gender imbalance.
    *Does the organizer
    adhere to the age groups posted or do they have a policy of ""If
    you don't tell, we wont tell.""  Their is nothing worse than
    signing up for an event only to find that the people attending are
    way over or under the age groups posted.  That is false
    advertising.
    How do you receive your
    matches?  A few companies such as WeekendDating.com send the
    matches to you and do all the work, however many companies now
    force you to enter in your selections on the Internet after the
    event.  It is  a real pain to do the matching sometimes,
    but you paid for the event and shouldn't have to do the work.
    When do you receive
    your matches?  Ok, I really did not intend to be self serving
    when writing these guidelines, but nobody sends you your matches
    faster than we do.  You receive your matches the next
    morning, many times within hours after the event.  Some other
    companies also do a good job and send you the matches the next
    afternoon or evening.  However others require you to wait 48
    hours or more because they force you to enter in your own matches
    and can not start sending results until giving people a chance to
    input selections.
    Do you receive one way
    matches, meaning if  someone
    picked you, but you didn't pick them, do you still find
    out?  It can sometimes be overwhelming meeting a lot of
    people very fast, and you may change your mind.  
    Do you get to meet
    EVERYONE at the event?  Some companies such as
    Weekenddating.com structure the event so that you meet everyone
    who attends.  However at other events, you only get to meet
    some of the attendees, but are encouraged to meet the others
    during a break period or afterwards.  That can still be a
    little awkward.  
    How long is each date? 
    I have seen everywhere from 3 minutes to 10 minutes, all depending
    on the philosophy of the company running the event.  Our
    philosophy is to have you meet more people (no more than 20) for
    less time (usually 4 or 5 minutes).  If you have an initial
    connection with someone, or are not sure after the 4 or 5 minutes,
    you can get to know the person afterwards or through email, but
    that important ice breaker has already taken place.  Dating
    is a numbers game.   
 Other groups have you meet 7 or 8 people for 7 or 8 minutes each,
    so you get a little more time with each person, but do not get to
    meet everyone.
 
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