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How WeekendDating Speed Dating and Singles Events Work
Our Long Island speed dating events, NYC singles events, and Stamford Connecticut gatherings are designed to make meeting new people easy and comfortable. Whether you are looking for dating, new friends, or fun social experiences, our events follow a simple, structured format.
At a Glance
- Mini dates: Up to 15 per event
- Length: About 4 to 5 minutes each
- Matches: Sent the next morning
- Locations: NYC, Long Island, Westchester, Stamford CT
- Who attends: Singles looking for something real
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Quick Answers
- Dress code: Smart casual works great
- Age groups: Listed on each event
- Arrival: Check in 10 to 15 minutes early
- Food/drinks: Available for purchase
- ID check: Yes, required to keep age groups accurate
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Voice Quick Answers
How do WeekendDating speed dating events work?
You meet up to 15 people in a series of mini dates. Each round is simple, guided, and only a few minutes long.
How long is each date?
Each mini date lasts about 4 to 5 minutes.
Which areas do you host events?
We run events across NYC, Long Island, Westchester, and Connecticut.
When do I get my matches?
Your matches are emailed the next morning, including mutual and one way matches.
Can introverts do speed dating?
Yes. The structure removes pressure and makes conversations easy.
Activity and Cultural Events
Not every event is about dating. We also run concerts, comedy shows, baseball games, fitness activities, scavenger hunts, museum outings, Broadway shows, and more. These events focus on shared interests and making new friends without age or gender balancing requirements.
How Speed Dating Works
You will have up to 15 mini speed dates, each lasting about 4 to 5 minutes. After each date you mark yes or no on your scorecard depending on whether you would like to connect afterward.
At the end of the event, you submit your scorecard. The next morning you receive an email with your matches, including mutual matches and one way matches (they picked you even if you did not pick them). Historically, 70 to 80 percent of attendees leave with at least one match.
As one participant said: I could have stared at a guy all night in a bar and never spoken to him. This forces everyone to be social.
Girls Night Out
This event is for women looking to make new friends or activity partners. It is relaxed, social, and a great way to meet like minded people. (CNN video available — may take a moment to load.)
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Manhattan
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NYC Friendsgiving Party
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Sat
Nov
29
2025
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NYC Friendsgiving Party
Men - All,
Women - All
Manhattan
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| Women: | 48-63 |
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| Men: | 54-69 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Dec
5
2025
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 54-69,
Women 48-63
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Dec
6
2025
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Dec
6
2025
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | N/A |
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| Men: | 25+ |
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Manhattan
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Gay Speed Dating
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Tue
Dec
9
2025
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Gay Speed Dating
Men 25+,
Women N/A
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-39 |
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| Men: | 25-39 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Dec
11
2025
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 25-39,
Women 25-39
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25+ |
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| Men: | 25+ |
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Manhattan
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NYCs New years eve Singles party
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Wed
Dec
31
2025
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NYCs New years eve Singles party
Men 25+,
Women 25+
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-65 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Jan
9
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Jan
10
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Jan
10
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Jan
16
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Nassau
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Nov
29
2025
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Long Island Comedy
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Sat
Nov
29
2025
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Long Island Comedy
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Photo Services- Look Better
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Mon
Dec
1
2025
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Photo Services- Look Better
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-45 |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Nassau
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Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens
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Mon
Dec
1
2025
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Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens
Men N/A,
Women 35-45
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Dec
6
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Suffolk
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Dec
13
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Suffolk
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| Women: | 25-33 |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Nassau
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Bachelor Alert-
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Sun
Dec
14
2025
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Bachelor Alert-
Men N/A,
Women 25-33
Nassau
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Secret Singles Supermarket Shopping
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Sun
Dec
14
2025
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Secret Singles Supermarket Shopping
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Dec
27
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Dec
27
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island Singles New years Eve
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Wed
Dec
31
2025
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Long Island Singles New years Eve
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Nassau
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Jan
3
2026
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jan
10
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jan
17
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Jan
23
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Jan
24
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Nassau
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
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Sun
Apr
26
2026
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Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
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Sun
Jul
12
2026
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester-
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Thu
Dec
11
2025
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Speed Dating Westchester-
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Dec
13
2025
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut
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| Women: | 50-65 |
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| Men: | 56-69 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Sat
Dec
27
2025
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
Other
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People Also Ask About How Speed Dating Works
Do I need to come with someone?
Most attendees come solo. It is normal and the host helps everyone feel welcome.
Do men or women rotate?
Men usually rotate, but we sometimes switch it depending on the venue.
What if I am shy?
Many shy people attend. The format actually helps take away the awkwardness.
Can I switch age groups?
Contact Jay if you are close. Otherwise we keep the groups accurate for fairness.
Frequently Asked Questions
How soon are matches processed?
You get them the next morning.
What if I do not meet anyone?
That happens sometimes. The goal is showing up and trying.
Do people meet long term partners?
Yes. Many couples and marriages have come from these events.
Is this better than online dating?
Face to face usually beats swiping. Real conversations and real energy.
From Jay
Since 2003 I have watched thousands of people meet through these events. Some formed friendships, some found relationships, and plenty have built families. The format works because it removes pressure and lets people relax and be themselves.
If you want help choosing the right event, you can always reach out at (516) 908-9638 or (718) 757-6933.
See you soon,
Jay
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