NJ Speed Dating

It's not just Speed Dating in NJ anymore!

Our NJ singles events take place in NYC, very conveniently located to major transportation hubs.  Our NJ dating events have resulted in over 65 married couples so far. 

Use the box below to search for New Jersey (NJ) SINGLES EVENTS  Only.

FIND AN EVENT:   FIND AN EVENT: All Events Singles Social Jewish All Locations Long Island New York City Connecticut Tri-State Date Ages Location Title Upcoming Events Sat Apr 19 Women:   30s, 40s, 50s Men:   30s, 40s, 50s Manhattan Singles Eggstravaganza Sat Apr 19 2025 Singles Eggstravaganza Men 30s, 40s, 50s, Women 30s, 40s, 50s Manhattan Thu Apr 24 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Thu Apr 24 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan Tue Apr 29 Women:   Millenials Men:   Millenials Brooklyn Millennial / Gen Y Speed Dating Tue Apr 29 2025 Millennial / Gen Y Speed Dating Men Millenials, Women Millenials Brooklyn Fri May 2 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Long Island -Make New Friends (Speed FRIENDING) Fri May 2 2025 Long Island -Make New Friends (Speed FRIENDING) Men - All, Women - All Nassau Fri May 9 Women:   48-63 Men:   54-69 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri May 9 2025 NYC Speed Dating Men 54-69, Women 48-63 Manhattan Sat May 10 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat May 10 2025 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Sat May 10 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Sat May 10 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Fri May 16 Women:   40-56 Men:   43-57 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri May 16 2025 NYC Speed Dating Men 43-57, Women 40-56 Manhattan Sun May 18 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Candle Making Class Sun May 18 2025 Candle Making Class Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Sat May 24 Women:   21 and over Men:   21 and over Manhattan Fleet Week Bash Sat May 24 2025 Fleet Week Bash Men 21 and over, Women 21 and over Manhattan Thu May 29 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Thu May 29 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan Thu Jun 5 Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61 Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Thu Jun 5 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Manhattan Tue May 6 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Online Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Tue May 6 2025 Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Online Wed May 7 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40 Online Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Wed May 7 2025 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s Online Tue May 13 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Online Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Tue May 13 2025 Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Online Sat Apr 19 Women:   35-49 Men:   38-52 Suffolk Long Island Speed Dating Sat Apr 19 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52, Women 35-49 Suffolk Fri Apr 25 Women:    - All Men:    - All Manhattan Three Day Rule Date Database-Comp Fri Apr 25 2025 Three Day Rule Date Database-Comp Men - All, Women - All Manhattan Fri Apr 25 Women:   56-70 Men:   58-78 Nassau LI Speed Dating Fri Apr 25 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 58-78, Women 56-70 Nassau Sat Apr 26 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Nassau LI Speed Dating Sat Apr 26 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Nassau Sun Apr 27 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Pickleball hangout Observe- Not play Sun Apr 27 2025 Pickleball hangout Observe- Not play Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Sun Apr 27 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social Sun Apr 27 2025 Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Sat May 3 Women:   27-43 Men:   27-43 Suffolk Speed Dating Long Island Sat May 3 2025 Speed Dating Long Island Men 27-43, Women 27-43 Suffolk Sat May 3 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Long Island Comedy Sat May 3 2025 Long Island Comedy Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat May 3 Women:   20s, 30s, 40s Men:   20s, 30s, 40s Manhattan Jewish Singles NYC Spring Mingle Sat May 3 2025 Jewish Singles NYC Spring Mingle Men 20s, 30s, 40s, Women 20s, 30s, 40s Manhattan Sun May 4 Women:    - 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If you are new to singles events, check out our guidelines for choosing the right NJ singles event.   Thanks to your many suggestions and feedback received over the past 4 years, it is not just speed dating NJ anymore.  Many of the events modify the speed dating format to an activity.   

These NJ Speed Dating and singles events are structured so that you get to enjoy the activity, but are also ensured to meet everyone who attends by incorporating a rotation factor.  This eliminates any awkward entrance to exists to conversations.    Have questions or Concerns? Call Jay at 718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.  

We held our first NJ speed dating event for New Jersey singles on Valentines Day 2003 and have since expanded to NJ and Connecticut  Over 65 married couples and we are still going strong!