NJ Speed Dating

It's not just Speed Dating in NJ anymore!

Our NJ singles events take place in NYC, very conveniently located to major transportation hubs.  Our NJ dating events have resulted in over 65 married couples so far. 

Use the box below to search for New Jersey (NJ) SINGLES EVENTS  Only.

FIND AN EVENT:   FIND AN EVENT: All Events Singles Social Jewish All Locations Long Island New York City Connecticut Tri-State Date Ages Location Title Upcoming Events Wed Jan 29 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Manhattan Speed Dating Wed Jan 29 2025 Speed Dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan Thu Jan 30 Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61 Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Thu Jan 30 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Manhattan Fri Jan 31 Women:   28-45 Men:   28-45 Manhattan Tall Speed Dating Fri Jan 31 2025 Tall Speed Dating Men 28-45, Women 28-45 Manhattan Sat Feb 1 Women:    - All Men:    - All Manhattan NYC 2025 Kick off Party Sat Feb 1 2025 NYC 2025 Kick off Party Men - All, Women - All Manhattan Fri Feb 7 Women:   30 and over Men:   30 and over Nassau Long Island Bowling Fri Feb 7 2025 Long Island Bowling Men 30 and over, Women 30 and over Nassau Fri Feb 7 Women:   45-59 Men:   48-65 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Feb 7 2025 NYC Speed Dating Men 48-65, Women 45-59 Manhattan Sat Feb 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat Feb 8 2025 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Sat Feb 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Sat Feb 8 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Fri Feb 14 Women:   25 and over Men:   25 and over Queens Anti Valentines day party Fri Feb 14 2025 Anti Valentines day party Men 25 and over, Women 25 and over Queens Sat Feb 15 Women:   30-45 Men:   30-45 Manhattan Jewish (JSC) Singles Mixer Sat Feb 15 2025 Jewish (JSC) Singles Mixer Men 30-45, Women 30-45 Manhattan Thu Feb 20 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Thu Feb 20 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan Fri Mar 7 Women:   45-59 Men:   48-65 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Mar 7 2025 NYC Speed Dating Men 48-65, Women 45-59 Manhattan Sat Mar 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat Mar 8 2025 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Sat Mar 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Sat Mar 8 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Fri Mar 21 Women:   Millenials Men:   Millenials Manhattan Afrodesiac Speed Dating Fri Mar 21 2025 Afrodesiac Speed Dating Men Millenials, Women Millenials Manhattan Thu Mar 27 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Thu Mar 27 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan Wed Feb 5 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Online Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Wed Feb 5 2025 Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Online Tue Feb 11 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Online Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Tue Feb 11 2025 Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Online Wed Feb 12 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Online Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Wed Feb 12 2025 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Online Tue Feb 25 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40 Online Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Tue Feb 25 2025 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s Online Wed Mar 5 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Online Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Wed Mar 5 2025 Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Online Tue Mar 11 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Online Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Tue Mar 11 2025 Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Online Tue Mar 25 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40 Online Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Tue Mar 25 2025 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s Online Sat Feb 1 Women:   27-43 Men:   27-43 Suffolk Speed Dating Long Island Sat Feb 1 2025 Speed Dating Long Island Men 27-43, Women 27-43 Suffolk Sat Feb 1 Women:   56-70 Men:   58-78 Nassau LI Speed Dating Sat Feb 1 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 58-78, Women 56-70 Nassau Sun Feb 2 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Jersey Boys (Babylon) Sun Feb 2 2025 Jersey Boys (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Fri Feb 7 Women:   50-63 Men:   53-65 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Fri Feb 7 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 53-65, Women 50-63 Nassau Tue Feb 11 Women:   N/A Men:    - All Manhattan Gay Speed Dating NYC Tue Feb 11 2025 Gay Speed Dating NYC Men - All, Women N/A Manhattan Thu Feb 13 Women:   N/A Men:    - All Manhattan Gallenites Girls Night out Thu Feb 13 2025 Gallenites Girls Night out Men - All, Women N/A Manhattan Fri Feb 14 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Vday Single MINGLE - Jays 22 Yr Fri Feb 14 2025 Vday Single MINGLE - Jays 22 Yr Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Feb 15 Women:   35-49 Men:   38-52 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Sat Feb 15 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52, Women 35-49 Nassau Thu Feb 20 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Photo Services- Look Better Thu Feb 20 2025 Photo Services- Look Better Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Feb 22 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Long Island Comedy Sat Feb 22 2025 Long Island Comedy Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Feb 22 Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Sat Feb 22 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Nassau Sun Feb 23 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social Sun Feb 23 2025 Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sun Feb 23 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Pickleball hangout - Not play Sun Feb 23 2025 Pickleball hangout - Not play Men - All, Women - All Nassau Fri Feb 28 Women:   56-70 Men:   58-78 Nassau LI Speed Dating Fri Feb 28 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 58-78, Women 56-70 Nassau Sat Mar 1 Women:   27-43 Men:   27-43 Nassau Speed Dating Long Island Sat Mar 1 2025 Speed Dating Long Island Men 27-43, Women 27-43 Nassau Sat Mar 8 Women:   50-63 Men:   53-65 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Sat Mar 8 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 53-65, Women 50-63 Nassau Sat Mar 15 Women:   35-49 Men:   38-52 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Sat Mar 15 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52, Women 35-49 Nassau Sat Mar 15 Women:    - All Men:   N/A Nassau Lesbian/Bi Speed Dating Long Island Sat Mar 15 2025 Lesbian/Bi Speed Dating Long Island Men N/A, Women - All Nassau Sat Mar 22 Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61 Suffolk Long Island Speed Dating Sat Mar 22 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Suffolk Fri Mar 28 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Nassau LI Speed Dating Fri Mar 28 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Nassau Fri Mar 28 Women:   56-70 Men:   58-78 Nassau LI Speed Dating Fri Mar 28 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 58-78, Women 56-70 Nassau Sun Apr 6 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Jersey Boys (Babylon) Sun Apr 6 2025 Jersey Boys (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Sun May 4 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Fiddler on the Roof (Babylon) Sun May 4 2025 Fiddler on the Roof (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Sun Jul 20 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk The Music Man (Babylon) Sun Jul 20 2025 The Music Man (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Wed Jan 29 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Manhattan Speed Dating Wed Jan 29 2025 Speed Dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan Thu Feb 6 Women:   50-65 Men:   56-69 Other Speed Dating Westchester Thu Feb 6 2025 Speed Dating Westchester Men 56-69, Women 50-65 Other Fri Feb 7 Women:   30 and over Men:   30 and over Nassau Long Island Bowling Fri Feb 7 2025 Long Island Bowling Men 30 and over, Women 30 and over Nassau Sat Feb 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat Feb 8 2025 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Thu Feb 13 Women:   40-54 Men:   43-57 Other Speed Dating Westchester Thu Feb 13 2025 Speed Dating Westchester Men 43-57, Women 40-54 Other Sat Feb 15 Women:   30-45 Men:   30-45 Manhattan Jewish (JSC) Singles Mixer Sat Feb 15 2025 Jewish (JSC) Singles Mixer Men 30-45, Women 30-45 Manhattan Sat Mar 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat Mar 8 2025 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan

If you are new to singles events, check out our guidelines for choosing the right NJ singles event.   Thanks to your many suggestions and feedback received over the past 4 years, it is not just speed dating NJ anymore.  Many of the events modify the speed dating format to an activity.   

These NJ Speed Dating and singles events are structured so that you get to enjoy the activity, but are also ensured to meet everyone who attends by incorporating a rotation factor.  This eliminates any awkward entrance to exists to conversations.    Have questions or Concerns? Call Jay at 718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.  

We held our first NJ speed dating event for New Jersey singles on Valentines Day 2003 and have since expanded to NJ and Connecticut  Over 65 married couples and we are still going strong!