NJ Speed Dating

It's not just Speed Dating in NJ anymore!

Our NJ singles events take place in NYC, very conveniently located to major transportation hubs.  Our NJ dating events have resulted in over 65 married couples so far. 

Use the box below to search for New Jersey (NJ) SINGLES EVENTS  Only.

FIND AN EVENT:   FIND AN EVENT: All Events Singles Social Jewish All Locations Long Island New York City Connecticut Tri-State Date Ages Location Title Upcoming Events Sat Jan 11 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat Jan 11 2025 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Sat Jan 11 Women:   20s-50s Men:   20s-50s Manhattan Winter Warmup Party Sat Jan 11 2025 Winter Warmup Party Men 20s-50s, Women 20s-50s Manhattan Sat Jan 11 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Sat Jan 11 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Thu Jan 16 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Manhattan J JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Thu Jan 16 2025 J JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan Thu Jan 30 Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61 Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Thu Jan 30 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Manhattan Fri Jan 31 Women:   28-45 Men:   28-45 Manhattan Tall Speed Dating Fri Jan 31 2025 Tall Speed Dating Men 28-45, Women 28-45 Manhattan Fri Feb 7 Women:   45-59 Men:   48-65 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Feb 7 2025 NYC Speed Dating Men 48-65, Women 45-59 Manhattan Sat Feb 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat Feb 8 2025 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Sat Feb 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Sat Feb 8 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Thu Feb 20 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Thu Feb 20 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan Fri Mar 21 Women:   Millenials Men:   Millenials Manhattan Afrodesiac Speed Dating Fri Mar 21 2025 Afrodesiac Speed Dating Men Millenials, Women Millenials Manhattan Tue Jan 14 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40 Online Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Tue Jan 14 2025 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s Online Wed Jan 15 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Online Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Wed Jan 15 2025 Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Online Wed Feb 5 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Online Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Wed Feb 5 2025 Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Online Tue Feb 11 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Online Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Tue Feb 11 2025 Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Online Wed Feb 12 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Online Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Wed Feb 12 2025 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Online Wed Jan 8 Women:   All Men:    - 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If you are new to singles events, check out our guidelines for choosing the right NJ singles event.   Thanks to your many suggestions and feedback received over the past 4 years, it is not just speed dating NJ anymore.  Many of the events modify the speed dating format to an activity.   

These NJ Speed Dating and singles events are structured so that you get to enjoy the activity, but are also ensured to meet everyone who attends by incorporating a rotation factor.  This eliminates any awkward entrance to exists to conversations.    Have questions or Concerns? Call Jay at 718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.  

We held our first NJ speed dating event for New Jersey singles on Valentines Day 2003 and have since expanded to NJ and Connecticut  Over 65 married couples and we are still going strong!