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It's not just Speed Dating in NYC
anymore!
Our Speed Dating NYC singles events take place at Bryant Park Lounge in Manhattan and at other singles venues throughout the Big Apple.. Our NYC dating events have resulted in over 85 married couples so far. We also do several virtual zoom speed dating NYC events which are a super convenient way to meet new people from the comfort of your home.
Use the box below to search for NYC SINGLES EVENTS Only. The schedule to the left has everything.
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| Women: | 40 and over |
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| Men: | 40 and over |
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Manhattan
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In Common Party
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Sat
Feb
22
2025
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In Common Party
Men 40 and over,
Women 40 and over
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Manhattan
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80s & 90s Party
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Sat
Feb
22
2025
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80s & 90s Party
Men - All,
Women - All
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-65 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Mar
7
2025
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Mar
8
2025
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Mar
8
2025
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | Millenials |
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| Men: | Millenials |
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Manhattan
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Afrodesiac Speed Dating
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Fri
Mar
21
2025
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Afrodesiac Speed Dating
Men Millenials,
Women Millenials
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-39 |
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| Men: | 25-39 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Mar
27
2025
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 25-39,
Women 25-39
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Feb
25
2025
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating
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Wed
Mar
5
2025
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Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating
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Tue
Mar
11
2025
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Online Tristate & NYC Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Mar
25
2025
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island Comedy
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Sat
Feb
22
2025
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Long Island Comedy
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Feb
22
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
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Sun
Feb
23
2025
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball hangout - Not play
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Sun
Feb
23
2025
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Pickleball hangout - Not play
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Feb
28
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Nassau
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Mar
1
2025
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Mar
8
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Mar
15
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Nassau
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Lesbian/Bi Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Mar
15
2025
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Lesbian/Bi Speed Dating Long Island
Men N/A,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Photo Services- Look Better
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Thu
Mar
20
2025
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Photo Services- Look Better
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Suffolk
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Mar
22
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Suffolk
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Mar
28
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Mar
29
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Jersey Boys (Babylon)
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Sun
Apr
6
2025
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Jersey Boys (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Fiddler on the Roof (Babylon)
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Sun
May
4
2025
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Fiddler on the Roof (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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The Music Man (Babylon)
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Sun
Jul
20
2025
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The Music Man (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | 40 and over |
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| Men: | 40 and over |
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Manhattan
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In Common Party
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Sat
Feb
22
2025
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In Common Party
Men 40 and over,
Women 40 and over
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Mar
1
2025
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Mar
8
2025
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 50-65 |
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| Men: | 56-69 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Mar
20
2025
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
Other
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Mar
27
2025
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Other
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Speed Dating NYC
If you are new to the singles scene, check out our guidelines for choosing the right NYC event. Thanks to your many suggestions and feedback received over the past 4 years, it is not just speed dating in NYC anymore. Many of the events modify the speed-dating format to an activity.
The best Speed Dating NYC and Singles events NYC events are structured so that you get to enjoy the activity, but are also ensured to meet everyone who attends by incorporating a rotation factor. This eliminates any awkward entrance to exists to conversations. Have questions or Concerns? Call Jay at 718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.
We held our first New york city event for singles on Valentines Day 2003 and have since expanded to Connecticut, Long Island and other areas. Over 85 married couples and we are still going strong!
Why we are called Weekenddating
It was 2003 and I (Jay) was working in corporate america. All of my friends were getting married, had girlfriends and it was not fun being the last single one of the group. A co-worker named Samantha said that she saw this thing on the news called Hurry Date and it would be right up my alley. I went to a few events and they were always held on a Tuesday or Wednesday night. I loved the concept but wouldnt get home until 11:30 PM and had to be up for work at 6 am.
I started looking for events that were held on the weekend, but........... None existed. So I decided to start my own company and hence, Weekenddating was born. Since those days, we occassionally have a midweek event, but the focus continues to be on Weekend events.
Why speed dating in NYC works
How many times have you seen someone you would like to approach but did not? Nobody wants that uncomfortable feeling. The beauty of the speed dating in NYC is that the awkwardness is removed from the equation. No pressure getting into conversations. Even better... No pressure getting out of conversations. That is all done for you.
Ok, full disclosure here.. A lot comes down to some luck, who is there the night you are. However it really does work and I know of at least 85 married couples, 10 or more kids and lots of happy couples.
Can you really get to know someone in 5 minutes?
Is it enough time to know if you will marry this person? Of course not.. However the five minutes is plenty of time to determine if this is someone you might want to get to know more about. If you are not sure after the mini date, they you can always give the person a yes and figure it out later.
What goes on at the speed dating NYC event?
Arrive about 15-30 minutes prior to start time so that you can settle in. Check in with your host to receive your welcome packet (We do check for proof of age to make sure we deliver what is advertised). Once we get started, everyone is paired off into groups of two. You spend approximately five minutues with someone and then jot down a few notes to help you remember who they are. (If you do not take notes, it can get confusing since you are meeting a lot of people). Next, the guys shift over one spot and we start the process again.
How many people will I meet?
The minimum number of dates is 8 and the maximum number of dates will be about 12. It varies each time. We adjust the amount of time per date based on the total number of dates.
How do I let you know who I liked?
For in person events, you will hand in a scorecard to let us know your selections. Within 24 hours, you will receive an email that lets you know who you matched with. Both mutual matches and one way matches (they picked you, but you did not pick them), will be be provided.
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