Choosing the right event

Choosing the Right Speed Dating Event

If you are trying to figure out which WeekendDating event is right for you, the short answer is simple: pick the location and age range that feels closest to your life right now. I keep groups small, balanced and organized so you can relax and actually enjoy meeting people.

For full background and a longer version of my story, you can also read the About WeekendDating page. This page is the quick guide to why so many people choose these events and how to decide which one is the best fit for you.

Why So Many Singles Choose WeekendDating

WeekendDating has been running singles events across Long Island, NYC and Connecticut since 2003. Over the years there have been more than 80 plus marriages, long term relationships, and tons of friendships that started at these events.

I (Jay) still show up at events with a box of name tags and match cards. This is not a big anonymous company. If something feels off with an age range, ratio, or the flow of the night, I adjust it. People like knowing there is an actual person paying attention instead of just an app or call center.

Events are structured but not stuffy. You know when your next rotation is, you know how long each mini date lasts, and you know when matches will be sent. That structure is what lets you relax and focus on talking to the people in front of you.

How To Pick The Right Event For You

A simple way to choose:

Start with location. Pick the area you are most likely to date in: Long Island, NYC, Westchester or Stamford.
Then choose an age range. Go with the range that feels realistic for who you want to meet, not just the youngest one you can technically join.
Look at the event type. Classic speed dating is the most focused. Mixers, trivia nights and activity events are great if you like a more casual feel.
Check your calendar. Weekends usually draw more people, but weekday events can feel a bit more relaxed.

If you are stuck between two events, it is usually better to pick the one that matches your age range most closely, even if the location is a tiny bit further.

What Makes These Events Different

Real age ranges. Proof of age is checked when needed so the groups stay honest and fair.
Balanced groups. Pre payment and careful planning keep the numbers as even as possible.
Clear format. You know when to rotate, when breaks are, and how to mark your matches.
Fast match emails. Results are usually sent within hours, not days, including one way matches.
Personal support. If you have a concern before or after an event, you reach me, not a random support bot.

Many people tell me they were nervous walking in, but by the second or third rotation they realized everyone else felt the same way, and it quickly became fun.

Still Not Sure Which Event To Choose

If you are not sure which event is the best fit, you can always call or text me and I will point you in the right direction based on where you live and the age range you want to meet.

Tel: 718 757 6933

If you are reading this page, you are already doing more than most people. The next step is simple: pick one event, put it on your calendar, and show up. I will take care of the rest and do my best to make it comfortable, even if it has been a while since you met people in person.

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